You've read and/or watched 'The Secret', read the Abraham-Hicks books, you know what you want - what you really, really want - and you're visualising every day, but nothing is happening...
'Why isn't it happening for me?' I hear you cry... Well, could it possibly be that you have some subconscious fears or doubts about actually receiving those things you think you really want...or maybe deep down, you don't really believe that the Law of Attraction could possibly work for you...?
If your subconscious thoughts and beliefs are not in line with your conscious desires, they will sabotage your ability to create those desires. That negative 'inner-voice', or those 'tale-enders' or 'yeah-buts' which are lurking beneath the surface, will be sending out contradictory messages into the Universe, actually creating the opposite of what you want...
As the famous Henry Ford quotation says 'If you think you can or you think you can't, you are right'. Your thoughts create your reality. Whether you think positive or negative thoughts, you create and emit matching energy, which goes out and attracts more of the same.
If you are feeling anxiety, self-doubt, anger, resentment, jealousy or any other negative feelings, you are likely to attract more to feel fearful, angry and jealous about; but when you choose to be and feel loving, understanding, accepting, of yourself and others, and feel an attitude of gratitude for whatever you already have, you can begin to attract real happiness, love, peace, and abundance into your life.
Or perhaps you are focusing on what you don't want. When you think or say things like, 'I don't want to be poor' (or ill, alone, etc.), the Universe picks up on 'be poor', 'be ill', 'be alone', as it doesn't process negatives. It's like if I ask you not to think of a red balloon - how can you not think about a red balloon if you keep on trying not to think of a red balloon - you can't! But if I say think of a blue balloon and you think about a blue balloon, you will then have stopped thinking of the red balloon...
You can't not use the Law of Attraction, it is always working naturally whether you like it or not. You are a powerful magnet and will always attract what you focus on because like attracts like. So, as Mahatma Ghandi once said 'Be the change you want to see'...
If you are struggling to let go of negative, limiting beliefs, quieten your negative inner voice, and start thinking positively, I can help you to take control and empower yourself. I use a combination of highly effective techniques including Hypnotherapy, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique or Tapping, and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) to help my clients change their thoughts, and change their lives. You can find out more by visiting my website page below.
Toni Mackenzie the Self-Empowerment Coach.
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